How to spend a nice Valentine's Day

Times flies and after spending money on Christmas' gifts, lovers, your day is coming! But don't worry, Love is not about spending a lot of cash in a gift for your "bae". A nice Valentine's Day is the occasion for both of you to spend a great night together and remember why you’re still in love. As a man, this article will focus on you guys!

First of all, be elegant, because a man in a suit is ten times more attractive! Then, a dinner in a good restaurant is always a good idea. But I know it could be really annoying to have a table in a restaurant for this special day, mainly in a big city like Paris in my case (even though I don’t have a Valentine…). But it’s not a problem for us guys, even if we can’t privatized an entire restaurant like in this romantic and totally unrealistic movie you’re girlfriend loves, you can order some good food, set the table and turning your place into a 5 stars restaurant. Turn off the light and light some candles, there is nothing more romantic than a candlelit dinner. Obviously, on the menu, don’t propose to the lady to eat a pizza with a beer, (yes even though it’s a really good pizza and a really good beer! We’re trying to be romantic here gentlemen!) but rather, her favorite meal, and a nice bottle of wine if it pleases her. Same for the end of the dinner, spoil her with her favorite dessert. Strawberries coated with chocolate is a classic during this day, but if the lady prefers ice creams or some ice creams, the lady will get it!

Discussion is the key to a healthy relationship, reminisce you stories about you, ask her to talk about her day, her feelings, and tell how much you love her.

It’s maybe a detail for some people, but I really think music is important to put both of you in the mood. Why do you think romantic scenes from movies turn your girl on? Yes maybe mainly because the actor is way too handsome but the music has a huge impact too. The right music at the right time, in the background, will make your girl think she is in a movie. As a big fan of 90s and early 2000s RnB, I could only advise you to go take a look at some of these songs to set the scene. R.Kelly, Joe, Boyz II Men, New Edition, Brian McKnight or Usher for some of the classics and Trey Songz (be careful on the songs you choose with him you don't want her to think you are a player or a cheater), Tory Lanez, or Jacquees for the contemporaries. I will share with you some of my favorite songs at the end of the article if it can help some of you.

And finally, accompanied by our famous playlist, the dinner being over, grab her hand for a little dance, preferably a slow, where you'll be close, intimate. Stick your forehead to hers and tell her you love her. After that, the night is yours, but do not forget, this is her night, and that's all for her.

I hope you will spend a really good Valentine's Day and if you're single like me, who else but yourself could make you spend a great evening.

My personal favorite playlist for Valentine's Day :

Avant - Can't Wait

Avant - Don't Say No, Just Say Yes

Avant - Read Your Mind

Boyz II Men - When I Fall In Love

Boyz II Men - I'll Make Love To You

Brian McKnight - Let Me Love You

Brian McKnight - Back At One

Ginuwine - In Those Jeans

Jaheim - Every Time I Think About Her

Jaheim - Put That Woman First

Jason Weaver - Love Ambition

Joe - All The Things (Your Man Won't Do)

Justine Timberlake - Still On My Brain

Mario - Let Me Love You

New Edition - Can You Stand The Rain

R.Kelly - Love Letter

R.Kelly - Whole lotta Kisses

R.Kelly - Bump n Grind

The Gap Band - Outstanding

Tory Lanez - R.I.D.E

Trey Songz - Pleasure (Interlude)

Trey Songz - Jupiter Love

Trey Songz - Flick

Tyrese - Sweet Lady

Usher - Nice and Slow

Usher - Can U Handle It

Usher - My Boo

Of course this list is non exhaustive. Let me know what songs will you play during a romantic night in the comments and feel free to share this post!

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